What has to happen in order for you to find The Right One? (Part 2 of 2)

I hope you had a chance to read Part 1 of “What has to happen in order for you to find The Right One?” Here’s the rest of the article (Part 2 of 2):

The second precondition is to be fully honest with yourself. This trait is interconnected with learning to live from an open heart (the first precondition covered in Part 1 of 2 of this article). The more honest you become with yourself the harder it becomes for you to deny the truth of how you feel.

Learning to be honest with how you feel is not just an easy walk in the park. Most of us are masters at hiding our feelings, in one way or another. Not wanting to face the truth of how we feel, we often simply inundate ourselves with distractions rather than face some basic truths. But it is only by learning to be honest with how you feel that you can gain the ability to just know whether someone is the right one for you or not.

Unless you are honest about your feelings, it is impossible to just “know” whether someone may be the right one for you. You may even be married to a person, but still feel uncertain whether this person is your soul mate.

This brings us to our third condition, trusting our intuition. Our intuition develops when we are being honest about both our positive and negative feelings.

Before I go further, let me give a short explanation about how I view negative feelings. I actually viewall feelings in a positive or neutral way. For example, I have learned to enjoy the times when I am sad as a beautiful part of life, so that I can fully experience those parts of life, too.

I believe we should all develop more positive views about our negative feelings in general, if that makes sense, since our pure negative feelings like anger, frustration, sadness, disappointment, fear, and sorrow are necessary to help us keep a balance. That means, you cannot experience true joy in life without also being able to fully experience your sadness.

But back to exploring intuition. Developing your honesty about your feelings will enhance your sensitivity to your own intuition. Call it a sixth sense or higher wisdom, or whatever. It is that inner voice that we all have that is able to detect the truth. However, the more we believe in lies, the more disconnected we become from this internal voice. Our intuition only strengthens and develops when we make decisions from a place of an open heart and become more sensitive to our feelings.

The reason women are often said to be more intuitive is because it is the female side of us that is connected to our feelings. It is ultimately from learning to listen to your intuition that you are able to just “know” whether someone is the right one for you or not. When you hear a happily married couple say that they simply knew they were meant for each other, in fact, these were the preconditions that were met.

Sometimes, it takes the right timing to just know. We all progress and develop at different speeds. The old saying that when the student is ready the teacher will appear also applies to recognizing the right one. And, unless those previous three conditions are met, this may not be the right time for you to receive or meet your soul mate.

Finally, often the people who have found the right person have not consciously tried to meet these conditions. They have simply lived them, and as a result they are able to recognize their right life partner.

However, if you are one of those people who is struggling to find the right one, understanding this process intellectually may help you learn where you might be stuck. Just the fact that you are reading this post is a sign that you are open to looking for help in finding your soul mate. I congratulate you for being on the right path.